Monday, June 20, 2011

HOW TO YOU SPELL D.A.D.

I know father's day is already over, but this article which I received in my mail this morning is very interesting and I just must share it.


He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers … Malachi 4:6a (NIV)
D-Depend on God!
Start each day asking God to give you the wisdom and strength to be the best dad you can be.  Never ever sacrifice your family on the altar of work. Yes, God is first in your life, but your family is second, and work is third.  This also means stop looking at your phone during dinner or emailing while watching TV.  My kids know when I'm engaged and when I'm just in the room.

A-Always Love Them!
Give your kids a hug and tell them you love them each and every day. No matter what age, hug them and talk to them.  Don't replace authentic love with texting and emails.  Use your voice and use your arms to convey love.  It will reassure them that they are your priority.  If you don't know the love languages of your kids, learn them so you can connect with them through the way God wired them.

D-Devote Your Time!
Kids spell love T-I-M-E, so make time to be with them. I don't know what this means for you and your kids, but find a way to give your kids the best part of your day (instead of the leftovers). It is too easy to slip into busyness and allow other things to suck your day away.  Be deliberate in finding ways to give your kids your time.

I hope these reminders help strengthen your relationship with God and your kids.  God gives us the gift of fatherhood, and we need to fight to be the best we can be. 

Original article found here

6 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing bro...... nice one,something you all know but something we hardly do,,hahhaha

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  2. Eugene,
    you are welcome, glad you find it useful. your boys are still young and it is at these stage where they need the father figure most.

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  3. Nice meaning, Johnnie. Thanks for sharing and happy father's day to you!

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  4. Yvonne,
    you are welcome and thanks for the wishes

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  5. Thanks for sharing the definition of D.A.D. Happy Father's Day to you. Month of June is for fathers. It is never too late to wish you now.

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