you might notice the unusual title to this posting.Perhaps You might have come across this term, or use it yourself.
FFK popular acronyms Fong fei kei in cantonese or Pang per Kee(PPK) in hokkien. Have you done a FFK or have someone done it to you? I know what the feeling is like. just a couple of days ago I got a text message from someone whom I am very fond of saying she has to FFK as she could not make it for our appointment due to heavy work assignment. she was very Apologetic and I know she was sincere when she wrote the text so it was not too hard for me to accept it. But I never thought I would do one myself. A couple of days ago I had sent out invitation to some close friends inviting them to our 28th Wedding aniversary. Then last afternoon my wife drop a bomb. she changed her mind and do not want the dinner as she afraid of problems that might arise from family members. now how do I tell my friends that the dinner was call off. where to I hide my face after informing them the dinner is off?? I was very troubled and did not know how to do it.
I could not sleep the whole night. As I do not want to quarel with my wife over this. I have not choice to force myself to do this unpleasant task of telling my invited guest dinner is now cancelled. I wonder if this could be consider as FFK??
My friends my humble appologies as this decision is inevitable. For the sake of the peace at home I had to agreed even though I dont quite agreed to my wife's Opinion.
Hope to make up with you guys , maybe we can have a simple get together instead.
Hope you guys understand and dont think I enjoy doing the FFK bit.
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