Wednesday, April 27, 2011

A Father's Heart

Do you know what it is like to be separate from the one that meant the most to you? She is your pride ,your joy and the reason you work so hard now . How your heart must have been smashed and broken into thousand of pieces.
I think that must have been what my hiking friend had gone through. He has been prevented from seeing their two years old daughter by his estranged wife. The love of the father knows no bound.Many a times he has to spent over Rm250 on toll and petrol , drove for over 3 hours only to be told he cannot see his precious little girl.
What would make a make a man write to his daughter on her ficticious facebook account? .

A father pinning for his little darling.that's what.And what makes a woman to be so vicious to deny a man to see his own flesh and blood? Sure two individual might have fallen out of love , but the poor innocence child should not be make to suffer as a result. She has every right to know her papa and feel his love as well.
My heart cries out to him everytime when I see him writing to his daughter, which in fact he is writing to himself as if to find solace.
I have no words of comfort for him except to encourage him to spur on, and to offer a prayer on his behalf.
So Stay strong my friend and have faith, you will see your little darling soon.





4 comments:

  1. Oh, I cannot imagine how difficult it is on what your friend is going thru... But surely it's painful for him huh....
    Wish him all the best.....

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  2. I think it is always very very bad to hold any child ransom for the fault not of her own.

    When mistakes made, marriage meltdown,responsible parent should do responsibly to their children, too bad, most of the time it is not happening..sigh.

    Please tell your friend to continue to trust in the Lord,, for HE will be the one to seeing through this, pray for the wife too, get God to come to her sense despite who is wrong who is right.

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  3. I feel sorry for him. No matter what happens between both parents (or grandparents), they shouldn't get the little one to involve. Please tell your friend to hold on and stay strong, for there will be better tomorrow.

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  4. Eugene & Yvonne,
    Agreed with both of you. children should not suffer for the 'sins" of the parent. Thanks for your concerns. I am sure my friend will appreciated it.

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