Saw this on my friend's facebook status
time for list clearing....why having FB when he or she hides everything??? weirdos
so I join in the conversation by saying I delete you can or not? And her response was:
"mr lim...delete me, then u'll see me the nxt day giving u a warm smacking right on ur face....good morning n good day to ya^^"
LOL This is one friend for keeps.
another one ask Johnnie I add you did I not?-oops actually I deleted her sometimes ago. Either she is unaware or have too many friends that she dont even know I exist.
I have been clearing some of my so call friends, but new one keep adding me, cannot bring down the number. Keep adding up. Now I only keep those I have contact with or share a common interest be it, blogging, hiking or photograhy apart from church network.
There are friends I know but I don't add them and they likewise.
What kind of friends do you have and what are they to you? Care to share?
Here is an interesting statement about friendship.
Anaïs Nin
puts it beautifully when she said, "Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." Though some natural loners are happy without them, most of us depend greatly on the company of true friends. As with any relationship, friendships bring support and joy and occasionally strife. Here's how to make friends, understand friendship better, and be a great confidante to others.
Johnnie, me too, trying to keep the number of friends small while others are trying to increase. I will remove those that I have very minimal interaction.
ReplyDeleteSheoh yan,
ReplyDeletethat's the idea. lesser spam also hor
I monitor my friend list in FB closely. Yeah, trying to get the spam lesser :)
ReplyDeleteI have two fb acc. One only for real good friends and families, another one is for gamers and net friends. I will not simply add anyone without a picture or no mutual friends. There's alot of ppl who just simply add strangers to show off the friend list. I don know why and wat's fun if u have 1k of unknown ppl in your friend list :/
ReplyDelete@yvonne. a wise move
ReplyDelete@venie- 1 account is good enough for me. different people add for different reason. some for obvious reason like models or wannabe models to get their followers. others like you says just want to show off how many 'friends" they have(more like showing off how popular they are) but that is all fake because they are not real friends, because real friends keep in touch and interact. how can they be friends when they don't even remember your birthdays ?
so which account I fit in?LOL
hahahha! I am not sure which account will you be fitting in but then I think that most of my net friends know me more than my Real life frens now who are bz wit their own real life. Hence, I interact more with my net friends, So this is really kinda complicated situation for me.
ReplyDeleteVenie quite true , in fact we are quite close to our net friends too. right? I had one whom i had never met before, but we are very close, it's like I have known her for years.
ReplyDeletei only approve ppl i know! :D so in my fb is either my family n relatives, or my kindie-college mates or my blogger friends! :D
ReplyDeleteCaroline,
ReplyDeletenice of you to drop by my blogger friend. Now I clear the list whenever the birthday reminder appear and if it does not ring a bell or there is no connection. off they go.
ps I am glad you approved me.:D