There are bound to be days you just forgets something It just slips your mind
There were times I forgot my wallet until I reached my office. So it can happen to just anybody.
So what happen if someone forgets to do something for you? Do you confront them and ask?
I find it quite difficult to do that. I just give them a benefit of a doubt.Maybe it just slip their mind, and it was not intentional. So if they don't bring it up, just let it go and do not bring up the subject again. What if we were the ones who forgot to do something for our friends? Would you like them to be kind to you as well? I would. There were also a few incident where appointment was also forgotten. This happen a few years ago, where a hiking friend whom we met at Johor and he invited us to visit his hometown at Penang for a hike and so we agreed on a date.When the actual date arrived we found ourselves at Penang but our "host" was no where to be seen. We could not reach him on the phone.So we continue with our visit without him .Days later we saw his post on facebook.He went on a holiday in a foreign country on day of our visit. He had totally forgotten on our visit. Needless to say it didnt go well with us. Then there another incident which happen quite recently.This girl just got posted at Miri and so we told her we will be there for a hike and we agreed to meet up since she could not could us in our hike. On the day when we landed she could not be reached. Apparently she had forgotten all about it until she saw our post on facebook. but the different was she extended her appologies, which was acceptable without reserve.
There were times I forgot my wallet until I reached my office. So it can happen to just anybody.
So what happen if someone forgets to do something for you? Do you confront them and ask?
I find it quite difficult to do that. I just give them a benefit of a doubt.Maybe it just slip their mind, and it was not intentional. So if they don't bring it up, just let it go and do not bring up the subject again. What if we were the ones who forgot to do something for our friends? Would you like them to be kind to you as well? I would. There were also a few incident where appointment was also forgotten. This happen a few years ago, where a hiking friend whom we met at Johor and he invited us to visit his hometown at Penang for a hike and so we agreed on a date.When the actual date arrived we found ourselves at Penang but our "host" was no where to be seen. We could not reach him on the phone.So we continue with our visit without him .Days later we saw his post on facebook.He went on a holiday in a foreign country on day of our visit. He had totally forgotten on our visit. Needless to say it didnt go well with us. Then there another incident which happen quite recently.This girl just got posted at Miri and so we told her we will be there for a hike and we agreed to meet up since she could not could us in our hike. On the day when we landed she could not be reached. Apparently she had forgotten all about it until she saw our post on facebook. but the different was she extended her appologies, which was acceptable without reserve.
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