Bunny seems to be having a time of her life, holidaying in vietnam and cambodia. Would you believe it was not too long ago she would not even dare to dream of such things. In fact going out with her girl friends was forbidden. She married rather young, and doing house chore , cooking and waiting for the man of the house to return from work just to attend to him had become a routine for her. It was after her two children had grown up and as a result of chating with some friends on fb, she began to wise up and deceide, she had to get out of this 'prison'. Yes, she was like a prisoner in her own home.
I had met her through another mutual friends of ours and we became very good friends and as she relate her sad tale to me, I could not believe it when she told me she does not even know how to go into an email account , much less reply a mail. Funny she seems to do well on Fb. Another thing I learnt was she does not even know how to make a deposit at the Atm machine. Well this was no fault of hers, as over the years, her husband does everything for her and as a result she does not have the confident and lack courage in many ways. I am glad she has finally come out of her shell, slowly but surely she will fit into the outside world. Oh yes, she now does hiking and even wall climbing and you don't have to guess who has influence her in these areas. ahem!
Hmm interesting story.
ReplyDeleteJohnnie, here wishing you a happier and healthier new year!
Thanks for the wish Hayley, Hope 2013 will be a good year for you too.
ReplyDeleteits good you help her be independent.simple things a woman should know besides cooking and washing dishes.A true friend is a friend who helps another friend for the better..hopeyr friend is doing fine with a great coach like you.
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Thanks Inda for the kind words. Yes, hopefully she will enjoy more freedom and learnt to be more independent and built confidence.
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