Just got a text message from a Hiker friend, saying she was in a bad shape now. Her boy friend who is also a mutual friend just broke up with her for the second time.! Reason given was there was no more passion left. Then why do you want to put her to this agony again? I wrote back to console her and wished I could offer her my shoulder , but atlas I am miles away. I am honour she consider me friend enough to share this with me. This is not the first time I have been told of this kind of heart breaking news. The first time was my little girl, but thank God she was strong and have since got over it . Why do guys want to play with a girl's feeling? Are they just interested to bed them and then dump them? Come on they are human with feelings not things for God sake!. How would like it if someone do it to your sister(s)?? Someday you will be parent too and if someone would to do that to your own daughter(s) would you like it?
If you are not sure, then don't start a relationship. Be honest and let them know earlier , not after you have got tired of them. It is people like these that give man a bad name.
Johnie, thanks for being a good man, and I am sure you are raising your two sons to be a fine young gentlemen. There is always black sheep in men. The most famous one is Edison Chen.
ReplyDeleteHopefully your friend is alright..
ReplyDeleteHave a nice weekend ahead!
Sheoh Yan,
ReplyDeleteGee thanks , I am blushing already. well, my two boys are not actually angels. I had talked to them before and tell them point blank they need to make up their minds and to stick to the one they have choosen. Otherwise stay single. no option.
Hayley,
ReplyDeleteThanks for droping by. Yes I hope she will be ok too. I believe she will.
I'm sorry for your friend. It's very difficult to read a person's mind and go inside his/her heart. Take this bad experience as a lesson and grow wiser. Please tell her to stay strong and positive.
ReplyDeletep/s: Do not shed your tears for someone who doesn't love you.
Yvonne,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your thoughts. I am sure my friend would appreciate it.